In Gulbarga now. Visited one of the taluks here called Chincholi which was recently in the news for selling girl children (much of which I am now told is untrue). Chincholi is a 3 hours tiring drive from Gulbarga on roads that are made bad with the rains turning everything to slush. Just when I thought the roads to Afzalpur are bad, Chincholi makes you feel like Afzalpur is really forward.
Chincholi
This place is quite cut off from the rest of Gulbarga and has a relatively large population of the Lambani group of tribals. Although an ex chief minister is from Chincholi, it has been around 2 years since any senior government official visited this place (except when the recent news flashed in the papers about selling of girl child). Surrounded by greenery, mud roads and Lambani population, somehow, people seemed to have forgotten that Chincholi exists.
The situation at the Taluk Hospital
We first visited the Taluk hospital in Chincholi and one patient asked me where the doctor is. I told her that I am also wondering the same. We were taken to the doctors quarters which is quite a spacious & empty building. Slouching in one corner was a tired looking man - the doctor. He is one among the only two doctors in this hospital for the last 2 years. Although an Anaesthetist, he ends up attending to every type of case that comes there. A very well spoken doctor, but extremely overworked and exhausted. The only time I saw some light in his face was when we told him what we've done in Afzalpur and asked if such help is needed here. His reply was that any (even Ayurvedic) doctor will greatly reduce the burden here. He works day and night and sees 250 OPD cases a day. Even when he comes to his quarters to rest a bit, there are immediately patients queuing up outside his quarters.
Since travelling to this place back and forth from Gulbarga might not be an option given the distance and bad roads, I asked him if any accommodation could be arranged for me if I decided to work there. He said "consider this your house. I will move out if you wish to stay here". I can't help but admire this doctor's will to stay back in this isolated place when he definitely can get many other options for a job. Hats off to him.
Women's health and hygiene
I don't know where to begin when it comes to this. I interacted with some Lambani women, an anganwadi lady and someone from an NGO working in these areas and the answers have been sad. Women here keep reproducing like a machine unless they have a boy child. If not, their husband will leave them and marry elsewhere. Girls are a burden because you have to pay Rs. 3 lac as dowry to get them married. Needless to say that such attitude towards girls means that they do not care much for their education or well-being and without the constant push of the NGO there, they would not bother sending them to school either. A senior person said to me "Obviously they want a boy. If I had 4 girls, then even I would want a boy...who wouldn't? And what use are girls anyway?" Yes, girls are probably sold here and it is likely that they are killed too (since the concept of abortion in the womb hasn't reached them yet), but it is apparently no big deal since it is only around 4% of the population which does that. That is what I was told.
Then I heard how someone tried to build a toilet for a Lambani family, and they pulled it apart completely, broke the water pipes, even the bucket was destroyed. For them, it is unthinkable to do something so dirty near your house (having a toilet inside your house is unmentionable). I'll skip mentioning their practises related to menstrual hygiene.
NGOs, government and other groups have conducted awareness sessions and after the recent news in the papers, some lawyers were also called to explain that killing the girl child is illegal. The NGOs even had some women come & talk who have done well in life despite coming from a similar background, hoping that these women can be role models for the Lambanis. The tribals are aware of all the facts and the law and will listen to all that is told to them. Yet it does nothing to change their attitude. And here too, men spend more than half the income(mostly earned by women working as coolies) on alcohol, and if they run out of money, they borrow money just to buy alcohol. I sensed that even the NGOs are slowly giving up.
No amount of money spent by the government or others will necessarily help in this case - either to bring doctors to the Taluk hospital or to change the attitudes of the Lambani tribes.
What do you think should be done in such a scenario?
Thanks Sinu for your presence there and at least trying to make a difference by bringing awareness. Such intricately tough challenges built into the society. It is lot more challenging in many districts of KA / MH / AP and so on. We are lucky in Mittur - not many realize that. Somehow, a local contact / school / teachers need to be identified and changes can be brought through them. The priority: Stopping the killing of girl children, team of strong girls can do the same job a s a team of boys even it means use of machinery. An example of such a girl team needs to be built. Easier said than done. Thanks for bringing up this to our notice. You must be deep in thoughts and we are with you in these thoughts. Take care Jagadish and Sujaya
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